I don't know what's happening to our lecturers lately but some of them really don't know how to respect people...
What's so fabulous about themselves that they wanna take it on their students...
I wonder is it because of their artsy- fartsy behaviour that makes them to behave like that.
Their mouth is just as smelly as the drain sometimes..
Even if they don't say anything, people also wouldn't think they are dumb...
When people throw back the same words at them, then only they feel the pain...
I had substitute their real names with some interesting names instead...to prevent unnecessary commotion in college...
Situation 1:
We are having Lobster's class on one fine Thursday. My friend brought her series of DIY bags to class and asked if anyone would like to purchase them. He just happened to come across and started to criticize like some idiots.
He went up to my the other friend who just claimed one of the bags. Mr. Lobster can't keep his damn mouth shut while he was having a look at the bag. He said something which does not only hurt my friend but also sounds like he's looking down at handicaps.
He commented about the bag is made from father's old trousers (its true coz its DIY) but the next thing he said really raised my friend's temper. He asked why is the trousers left one side of the leg only with an idiotic sneer and said that my friend should contribute this to those who lost one of their legs. My friend is at rage and she warned him not to cross the borderline in speaking. He has that stupid sneer of his every time while he said things sarcastically...he never care about how people would find that very irritating and disgusting...
Situation 2:
Hermit finds it hard to memorize our names and he start to give some of us nicknames...At first, it really does not matter much because we just take it as a joke. But, after some time, we realize he just take it easy and become a habit of his. He called my friend as Sally for no concrete reasons and he get so use to it in whatever situation no matter it is for serious matter or whatever crap. My friend is actually rather unhappy about since last semester but she just kept quiet until one day she sort of commanding him not to call her Sally anymore...And that idiot just can't get the message, he started calling her with another nick.
And then, not long ago, I become his aim. He used to tell me not to stress myself so much for assignments in the past and I took it as a good advice from him. But soon enough, he start to make a joke out of it...that fart...he said I think too much which I admitted and he told me that I'll get old faster if I stress often and I think he is right too...Things get wrong after that. These are some phrases he use to describe me in front of my classmates....
"Stress 'til becoming like a 40 year old"
and worst...
he get used to call me "Auntie"...
I was like...."F***! What the hell with him!"
At first I just tried to express my dislike in a joking way...
But he never concern about it and keep on calling me "Auntie" even for serious matters like asking for my comments on my friends' work and for presentation.
I got so pissed off that I actually tell him straight in a stern tone "Stop calling me auntie" in front of another lecturer and friends. I think he gets it that I'm unhappy about it and after that he called me with my own name. Let's see if he will continue to fool around next week...
Situation 3:
Another lecturer, Gorilla thinks that he is so fashionable himself...He likes to criticize on people's appearance...He purposely tell my friend that she need a make over and commented that her specs are lame. And for another time, he jokes about my friend's hairstyle yesterday. Saying that it is funny and weird and hinting what sort of fashion is that...I feel a little anger in me that time so I just commented jokingly about him being no fashion just like how he did to others. He looked at me and I know he's a bit irritated in some way ( He is those who follow the Lala fashion...knew it from his fb...). He said "Then you also no fashion." I answered him "So what?" and he told me back "Oh yalar~ then so what with my problem?" I was boiling at some point that time and I can't resist myself to answer him in cantonese..."这个叫作开口别先得罪人~"...and he said nothing and my class in total silence that time...he look at me smiling but i guess he was surprised that time tho....
Alright...lecturers are admire for their knowledge and they power over us because they know more things than us but it doesn't mean that they can interfere students' private interest and thinking...so 시끄러 and mind your own business! I'm feeling so remorse that I didn't use this word on them!

1 comments:
yes i was not pleased with lobster's comment on her DIY bags. it was sort of (ok not sort of) rude of him to criticize her bag designs.
i'm so looking forward to hear about this hermit lecturer.. will ask u abt it when we meet!!! :)
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